You find all sorts of excuses as to why your still glued to the ground. Some of reason’s might make sense to you now, but ultimately your happiness must come first. Some days, you talk this BIG talk, telling others to look at themselves in the mirror. Other day’s you ditch it out not even realizing that half the stuff you say maybe hurtful to others.
The truth is in the pudding, my friend. Maybe it’s that YOU can’t handle the truth or YOU just don’t want to face the music? Rightfully so, you are all caught up in your own web, uncertain of where it started and now you can’t find your way out!
Who are you?
You play the part of this mysterious character but I can see through that. You are constantly looking over your shoulder with a look of fear. I feel for you, I do, because…
- “I see this person who really just want’s to relax after a hard day’s work, unwind, have a glass cocktail and catch up with an old friend.”
- “I imagine you to have this GIGANTIC personality that people love and adore.”
- “You are probably full of life with so much wisdom to share”.
Are you afraid of losing the person you love and not at all scared to admit it? What happens when you meet the right person? You should be even more afraid of losing them. It’s at that point you understand just how lucky you really are to have crossed paths. Don’t let that one thing get in your way, of your happiness!
We spend most of our lives looking for the right person, yet when we find them, we hesitate. Why? Maybe because we were manipulated over and over again? Or because we feel it’s safer to stay put? Sometimes in life you may get slapped so many times that you eventually become numb. Let me be clear, I am referring to that mental slap, it’s brutal. It leaves you with no marks on the outside but a deep bruise internally. Then you find yourself standing with your guard up, to protect yourself from everyone and anything?
But what happens when the next person crosses your path, and you know they are good? Do you continue with the cha·rades or do you take the chance? You know all you really want is to be happy and fall in love again. That seems to be what most people want but they’re afraid of change .
Your fear is not sign of weakness, but rather a sign of self-understanding. You need to face it! So whether or not you are stuck in your own web, take the hit without the hit, decide to call that person your girlfriend/ boyfriend, make them a new bff, admit you are scared, these are all decisions you’ll need to inevitably need to make.
Remember, with personal experience; comes failure. Except your faults and know when you meet your match, it’s time to throw in the towel! All that hesitation will disappear when you are finally confident!
